Becoming is sacrificing the today for reasons of the eternal peace that can come when a soul is tended for the long term. “Becoming” means constant tending, like a garden, removing the weeds that threaten to choke out the fruits of the soul. The soul is what you take with you even when you have nothing else you can take. It is not the bank accounts or the cars or the houses. What you amount to in this life isn’t the number of trophies (real and figurative) that you accumulate. It’s one soul reaching out to another to help it on its journey of becoming.

It’s one human reaching into the life of another to improve it in some way. It’s this projection of good that we call a blessing. Still, some find ways to avoid the busy and focus their energy on how to project good into the lives of others. We’re not giving our souls a chance to keep up with the fast-paced life that we’re living.

Our soul was not designed for such a frantic pace. We’ve been caught up in the curse of busyness. Instead of being connected to the natural rhythms of life, we’re always in a constant hurry. Despite having more “caloric surplus” – that is, our ability to feed ourselves – we work more than we did a generation ago. One likely cause is the pace of the world today. To what can we attribute this rapid increase in depression? Our generation is three times as likely to experience depression than the one before.

Each decade has greater rates of depression than the previous. The Curse of Busynessĭespite our progress over the past few decades in technology, medicine, and dozens of other areas, we’ve fallen short in one critical area. If you strip away the trappings of our society, if you ignore the changes in our bodies over time and even look past the changes of our minds, you’ll find something core, something special, and, unfortunately, something that needs cared for. They’re the central part of our being and who we are really. Nor does explaining that, when lives are lost on a ship or plane, they’re described as “souls on board.” Souls are of the highest value, but what are they? But describing it as deep, separating it into its own bucket, and addressing it with reverence doesn’t explain what it is. It was somehow disconnected, separate, and set apart from the body and mind. (See Building Trust for more.) Defining a SoulĪncient writers believed that the soul was such a deep part of a man that they wrote about it in the third person. It’s sort of like the word “trust,” which most people believe they know the definition of – before they’re asked for the definition. Jewel sings, “Who will save your soul?” but most folks don’t know what it is. For the most part, people don’t speak about our souls. In Soul Keeping: Caring for the Most Important Part of You, John Ortberg encourages us to think about what our soul is and how to care for it.

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